The Defiant Ones

Jul 14, 2017 / 1 Comments

I don’t believe in the conventional.  I am constantly inspired by people who make their own way in the face of adversity. People who are told what they CAN’T do and not only do it but EXCEL at it. There’s a shift happening in my life and I’m not sure where it will lead but there is a storm brewin’.  As many of you know, music is my life line and there are two things that have come out recently that had me glued to my seat: one being HBO’s documentary “The Defiant Ones” which talks about Dr. Dre and Jimmy Iovine’s music and business partnership, and the second being Jay-Z’s latest album “4:44.”

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Let’s start with “4:44.” It’s a short album, less than 40 minutes long.  The content is for adults and not because of foul language but because he is talking  about being a grown up. He talks about credit, legacy, he expresses guilt and remorse, he talks about homeownership, about being a father to his children, and WEALTH. Now, I’m not giving him a gold star for knowing how important these things are. The reason why it’s such a big deal is because these issues haven’t been discussed in this way and in this format before. And because usually rappers aren’t still rapping at this age and let’s face it, some NEVER grow up. In the age of social media and the facade that people buy into, he’s removing the packaging and showing what’s real and true.  A drug dealer with no college degree is a billionaire and whether you can respect the path from whence he came or not, you HAVE to respect his drive and his vision.  He was smart enough to know that rap alone would never be enough to sustain him for the long term so he turned into a BUSINESS, MAN. Inspired.

IMG_2621Now on to ‘The Defiant Ones.”  Dr. Dre’s ascension from “World Class Wreckin’ Cru” to being able to sell his headphones to Apple for 3 billion dollars is remarkable.  I’ve always loved him as a music producer and his involvement with N.W.A, Snoop Dogg, Tupac and Aftermath was game changing. And then you have the ultimate wingman that is Jimmy Iovine who I didn’t know started out as a music man engineering and producing for other artists.  I always heard of him as a business man only.  He got his start working with John Lennon, Stevie Nicks and Bruce Springsteen for heaven’s sake.  Both men have an INSANE work ethic, both went down paths less travelled by, and both men liked to think outside the box.  I believe that most visionaries have a little crazy in them and I think you have to in order to keep pushing forward especially in the music business. Here’s the other thing that I take away from both stories, timing is EVERYTHING.  When that wave comes you have to ride it which brings me back to my initial thought. SOMETHING IS HAPPENING. I am being called to lead. I don’t know to what extent just yet, but I am laying the groundwork NOW.  I always tell people that what I may lack on paper, I make up for in imagination. My imagination keeps me working toward a higher goal.  It makes me throw my name into the hat for consideration when I know I’m entering the race as an underdog.  I think there’s something great in me that I’ve always known was there that now needs to be cultivated so I want to study the great, surround myself with greatness and  be mentored by greatness. And so it begins…

I am Woman

Jan 24, 2017 / 0 Comments

Hi Everyone! Yes I am alive. I know it’s been quite some time since you’ve heard from men but truthfully I hadn’t been inspired to write anything. Until now. So first things first, Happy 2017 y’all! Now to talk about what has brought me out of hiding.

Secondly, let me just say I am a feminist, EVERYDAY. Contrary to belief the word “feminist” is not a bad word. As you all know, a certain person who shall not be named was sworn in as The President of the United States last week. You also probably know that the next day millions of women across the world marched for equality and against the new leader of the free world who would like to do away with many laws and programs like Planned Parenthood. What has been troubling to me is the number of posts I’ve seen from women who are AGAINST this cause.  Did I march? Nope. Why do you ask? For one: safety, two: I think it’s a little too late.  Do I respect and understand the women who did march? Indeed. The biggest argument I’ve seen against the movement is between the pro-lifers vs. the pro- choicers.  Now this is a very touchy subject. Some religions state that a woman should only engage in sexual intercourse if the goal is to reproduce. Some of the same religions are against birth control for that same reason. In case anyone hadn’t noticed we are currently in the year 2017 and you know what, times are a changing. Now if you choose to live your life by those rules that’s great but everyone doesn’t march to that same drum.  The key word here is CHOICE. We all have a choice to live the lives we want the way we want. I happen to be pro-choice. Now someone will read this and say, “OMG she’s pro-abortion!” WRONG. I just don’t think the government should be involved in these matters. Government run primarily by men mind you. That’s all I’m going to say about that.

In the crowds I noticed a lot of children. Although a very historical event, I don’t think it was the place for children but you know what? The parents CHOSE to bring their kids and that is their right.  What boggles me is the T_ _ _P supporters who sat at home looking at the TV in disgust over the language used by some protesters, You know what? Everything isn’t for everybody. It’s like the person who complains about being bullied on social media when you don’t HAVE to be on social media, you CHOOSE to be.  Don’t like what’s on TV? Turn it off. I also saw a lot of posts from black women who chose not to participate because it was a ‘white woman march.” No matter what race, if you are a woman this march is about YOU. It was a powerful image to see all these women around the world UNITED.  However, my biggest question was  “Where were all of these people when it was time to vote?” But here’s what I know, there was a lot of people who didn’t vote for him but there were also a lot of people, WOMEN especially, who did. This is what we’re dealing with folks and it hasn’t even been a week yet. Will the march matter? Only time will tell but it sent one hell of a message, and to me that’s a start.

 

The Philadelphia Wine Mixer That Never Was

Jul 31, 2016 / 0 Comments

I went back and forth about this. Am I going to post something about it? Will anyone care? Have too many days gone past? Well after a conversation with my mother who has a way of putting things into perspective, I’ve decided to go forward with my blast of everyone involved in the catastrophe that was “The Philadelphia Wine Mixer.”

When this event first came to my attention a little over a month ago, I thought it would be a great night.  A night of music, hobnobbing with elected officials, upscale dress, DJ Jazzy Jeff, spirits, and hors d’oeuvres is definitely something I could get with. I saw the invitation on Facebook ( which should have been my first clue) the event was FREE ( which should have been my second clue). A friend of mine who I was to go to the event with, called the number on the Facebook post to confirm that the event was INDEED free and that no tickets were required.  The person she spoke with confirmed that that information was correct. Several people posted questions on the page where the event was advertised asking about invitations and tickets and were also assured that NEITHER was available OR necessary. Ok.

The event was scheduled to take place during the week of the Democratic Convention at the African American Museum from 8-12. My game plan was to get there between 8:15 and 8:30 because when you throw the word “Free” around, people lose their damn minds.  When I arrived at the museum there was a crowd of people waiting to get in. No line, a crowd. Also, some people CLEARLY didn’t get the memo about “upscale dress” as some women showed up in their afternoon at the mall best (remember, I’m a little bougie) After 20 mins of being bum rushed into the building and a scanning at the metal detector, I was in. (My friend didn’t get there until close to 9-BIG mistake) As I walk around there are people walking about with drinks and small bites. I see a mixture of professionals who can read directions and people whom I shall call “riff raff”. A bit snobby I can admit, but I also call it as I see it.  Anyway, my friend texts me that she is in line. Next thing I know, I get another text saying they aren’t letting anymore people in. WHAT?!?!?! I attempt to go to the back where there are tents and additional seating and tables and was told that if I went out there, I wouldn’t be able to get back in. Again, WHAT?!?!?! A short, somewhat pushy lady tells me that there are people getting in without invitations and they were trying to get a grasp on the situation. I then inform her that I didn’t have an invitation which prompts her to ask me, “Well how did YOU get in?” Wait, WHAT?!?!? So without letting my north philly out, I advised her that there were no invitations, and that the information on the Facebook post said there WERE no invitations or tickets for the event. “Do I need to show you the post?” I asked her. She said she didn’t need to see it and since I was already in, I was in, but that no other people would be admitted.  Since I was in, and my friend was not, I left and we went else where. The next day through a source that shall remain nameless, I was told that it got worse after I left. The mayor of Chester who was hosting the party got kicked out of his own shindig. The city only an hour after I left, came and shut the whole thing down because of the noise level and for being OVER capacity.  So it was over at 10. It showed the African American Museum in a bad light. What was supposed to be a classy event became nothing more than a turn up at a museum and here are a couple of questions I have for the “planners” of this disaster:

If the party was invitation only, how come no one checked for invites?

If the party was 21 and over, how come no one was checking ID’s?

Why wasn’t there better organization at the door?

Here is the list of people who I am BLASTING for piss poor planning during a week where ALL eyes would be on Philly and with this particular event, the african american community:

Mayor Thaddeus Kirkland of Chester

The African American Museum of Philadelphia

Mr. Ron Starr- Host

Live in the Moment-Host

Model Mixers- although they only served the drinks they were associated with the event, so I’m blasting them too

Sweet Home Healthcare- Sponsor

This was a MAJOR FAIL, oh and if you didn’t know, this is most definitely a RANT of epic proportions!